Dying is not something to fear. Dying is something to joyfully prepare for. Joyfully? Yes, well, maybe that’s a bit awkward. But you can specify, very clearly, how you want this last ritual to come to pass. Choose the music, the words, the actions, create it like some kind of play. Your loved ones get to choose which role they want to play. Because you’ve lived a good life. You’ve been on so many different adventures. You have been through quite a few hardships. But the worst is over.
A new start
From now on we can start building the good life. A hopeful future. Before this pandemic I got the message: many storms are coming. But now the worst is over. We can safely start breathing freely again. Build a better life. You aren’t going to physically die soon, but it can help to look back on your life like that. You can have a spiritual death and start over. What are your wishes? How do you want to sculpt the remainder of your life? Dream big! It will come true you know? If only you believe it. It’s that easy. If only you believe that.
The end?
When you die you can know: this body is no longer needed, you can go back to feeling oneness. Finally feel the joy of reunion, with all those that you’ve lost and grieved over. Now you can experience real freedom. And know eternal life. Just without this earthly body. But while you still have it, why not take good care of it?
A new beginning
It’s really not the end, just a new phase, a new beginning. Still hard to imagine. Nothing to stress over. Everything will work out. There are some things to work out, some problems to solve. But they will be easier. Because we’re going to work together. People will all know the truth soon. And it will unite us.
“The truth will set us free.” (It has been prophesied). Most of us knew the phrase but not the meaning. It’s still hard to really comprehend. But the worst is over. Soon all will be clear and well.
Even if there’s a temporary illusion left: that it’s all coming to a climax. That’s just what it is: an illusion. A twist in plot, a turning point. The mist will clear. The new path will illuminate.
Free will
Knowing that you have a free will, you can choose which path you want to follow. Where to go. What to do. What to experience. Is it very different from your current life? Yes, suffering is no longer required. Get rid of that imprint. Let go of that ‘programming’. Because it’s no longer needed. The survival mechanism is redundant now.
Abundance, equality, health and happiness
You can truly ponder over what good life you will create. How to achieve harmony and balance in this new world. No more fear based society. But abundance and equality. Health and healing for those that choose it. Is it a choice? Yes it is. You need to process the remaining heavy feelings. They are the only thing between you and your ideal vision. It’s true. It’s not an easy task, but a very rewarding one. Deal with the pain, for once and for all. See it for what it is. Let go. Walk on. What other cliches are there? Because they’re mostly true.
Life doesn’t have to be hard. You don’t have to choose the most difficult path. Easy walking will also be rewarded. Enjoy yourself. Laugh, smile, rejoice. Because you’ve made it so far. The worst is truly over. Now put some energy now into imagining your future. It will be fruitful and abundant. Readjust your apocalyptic version. Release it. It’s really an illusion!
Gea the dutch one
🎶We’re on a road to nowhere 🎶(Talking Heads)
Because all we need is the now. The lack will be replaced with abundance. But try to remind yourself of what true abundance is. For only then you will start to see it. And when you see you will start to manifest it. So try to focus, to be conscious of it. This is no bedtime story or fairy-tale. It’s the new way of life.
Imagine
- 🎶Don’t worry about a thing, ‘cause every little thing is going to be alright 🎶 (Bob Marley and The Wailers)
- 🎶Imagine🎶 (John Lennon)
- 🎶All I have to do is dream🎶 (Everly Brothers)
Start to imagine your new life
And then just try to live your life in the best way possible, according to your own true vision. If you want a life full of hardships, because that’s all you know, you can. But know this: you don’t have to. You have a choice, you have a say in it. You create your reality by your expectations. Why not make them good ones? But thinking like that takes some practice, some reminders, some replacing of old beliefs with new ones.
Reminders?
Affirmations, repeat them until you internalize that it’s this reality already.
🎶… you know it’s true, ooh ooh ooh, I love you🎶 (Milli Vanilli)
Rewrite your own history by seeing the lessons in all of it. Not easy and possibly time consuming, but it’s okay. There’s help when you need it. The world is going to be different from now on.
🎶You are not alone. I am here with you. Though we’re far apart, I’m always in your heart 🎶 (Michael Jackson)
We’re going to :
🎶Heal the world, Make it a better place, For you and for me, And the entire human race🎶(Michael Jackson)
Insert your own lyrics like for instance: 🎶Cover me in sunshine 🎶(Pink)
Or something like this: 🎶Life goes on🎶(BTS)
Writing your personal song
Write your own lyrics! That would be even better. Because everyone has their own song in them. Their own lyrics, their own melody, their own rhythm, their own beat. We all have our own unique story and personality.
It’s okay to lean on someone else’s song for a while, until you remember your own. But if you’re going to listen to it for a while, better choose a good one. Switch it up once in a while, because it’s fun to change it up. To enjoy multiple symphonies.
Gea Kuil
What’s important to you? What do you want to change, about yourself or in the world? Start with that. If it seems too hard or you get overwhelmed by it, try the next best thing. Later you can adjust to your true course, your true color. You’re allowed to make mistakes. Try not to linger on those things for too long. Just try to do better next time.
🎶I am only human, after all🎶(Human – Rag’n’Bone Man)
🎶We’re gonna be legends , It ain’t just scary, It’s gonna be legendary 🎶(Legends – Welshly Arms)
🎶I wasn’t ready to be honest, I know. And I know I owe it to myself. So from that day I made a promise. I get up, I get up every time I fail. I’m brave🎶(Brave – Don Diablo & Jessie J)
Remember: Life is what you make of it.
What song is on your mind?
